Signs and Signals: 8 ways you’ll know someone is a Scorpio before they tell you
So, you met this interesting guy, huh? When you were together at the cafe, they seemed nervous as evidenced by their sweaty palms and fast breathing. As the date went on, they seemed to be more comfortable and surprisingly engaging—they did not slouch, their eyes seemed to beam, and they even shared his thoughts and opinions.
So, what if you wanted to know what their sign was? Well, as a naturally curious Scorpio, you would want to know theirs, right? Of course, Scorpios love the company of other Scorpios. Though always acting like a lone wolf, they will always long for connection and presence.
With that said, how are you actually supposed to know whether or not a person is a Scorpio? You’re SUPER lucky because this list will help you in your future endeavors.
Does your date keep asking questions about you? Does your co-worker always take up interesting projects? Chances are, that person is definitely a Scorpio.
Scorpios are naturally curious. They love discovery and have a passion for it. They are often investigative, and once you catch their eye, you can’t escape their grasp. They will not stop at a simple answer as they will pry even more to satisfy their curiosity, so you should DEFINITELY be careful with your choice of words.
Not all answers are tame. Sometimes, words pierce through skin worse than others, but fear not as Scorpios have thick skin—no, like REALLY REALLY THICK SKIN. They can take harsh words, criticism, and even hate. However, this shouldn’t give you an excuse to further harass them as they can eat their prey alive.
Do you feel like your classmate always solo-flights group projects? Or perhaps, do they prefer doing tasks alone? That’s another indication of being Scorpio.
While Scorpios love connection, they will almost always prefer doing things their way—an act which may or may not be fine for the people around them. They always tread the path of sigma males. Why? Well, because they love the concept of perfectionism. People who are unimaginative and don’t carry their own weight infuriates the living daylights out of them. Most of all, they believe that tasks will be the best when they themselves do it.
Scorpios are probably the most overbearing you will ever know. They are indeed passionate. However, since they operate as sigma males, they are often controlling of their surroundings. It’s as if their way is the only correct way—that kind of thinking.
Ever seen your boss being so incredibly picky with wording, clothing, and even their coffee? Sounds like a Scorpio. Success is their driving motivation; therefore, they will use all the power they have in order to get what they want.
This habit sounds bad, but in reality, it’s almost always not, especially in a corporate scenario. Being in control is not always a negative thing as it gets the job done in a more efficient and systematic manner.
Who doesn’t like success? Truth be told, since the inception of time, success is what mankind always wanted—though not always pertaining to monetary success. Scorpios are much the epitome of this. They breathe and live for greatness.
Scorpios often have an unseen aura of confidence that surrounds them and never leaves. From the way they present themselves to the way they communicate to others, they will always have enough self-esteem to challenge themselves further. Because of this, you’ll often see them as the center of attention.
Scorpios also love their flaws and use them as a stepping stone to appreciate their own unique strengths. Because of this, you will never ever see a Scorpio doubt themselves. They know themselves the most!
Ever tasted the flavor of vanilla~? I’m joking. For real though, Scorpios are the ultimate sex masters. They know every nook and cranny, every kink there is, and every equipment man has created. If you want to improve your own sex life, go to a Scorpio.
Ever met a person who talks about sex positions, vibrators, and sexual kinks any chance they get? Might be a Scorpio, dude. Scorpios are VERY open about their sex life. They are have a natural sex appeal that attracts almost everyone around them. You could probably ask them something sexually embarrassing and they will give you a straighforward answer with a serious face. They are just that shameless and experienced!
Did someone catch your interest because you found them caring? Well, you’re not alone. Nothing beats a person who cherishes people around them. Though Scorpios are always seen as dominant and overbearing on their own, they might just be one of the most caring people you will ever meet.
They are protective, period. Once they see you as someone they value, you will always have their back. Oh, you’ve gotten cheated on? Call a Scorpio. Want someone to accompany you? Call a Scorpio. Do you want revenge because your ex is just the scummiest human being to ever live? You guessed it, call a Scorpio. I’m kidding, but hopefully you get the point. Scorpios will ALWAYS be there to protect and comfort you.
Did it take time for you and your Scorpio friend to form a connection? Well, that’s a given. Scorpios are often hard to get. They are often mysterious about every other thing about their lives and usually don’t trust others right from the get-go.
This is pretty much the end of the list. Scorpios are such amazing people whether they showcase their flaws or not. This is why if you already have a Scorpio friend, keep them beside you and trust them the way they trust you.
