Probably Less than Friends: Would an Aquarius and a Scorpio Make a Good Match?

There is a quote that says, “Don’t always use your heart; think as well using your brain.”

Some may agree while others say otherwise, but it is most certainly true that there are no perfect equations to a long-lasting relationship. There are no straight answers because feelings and emotions are subjective. They aren’t always logical. All we can do is try again, and if we fail, we find more solutions. That is why this quote embodies Scorpio-Aquarius relationships on a deeper level. 

But, why?

Well, it’s because Scorpios are emotional individuals. Though they seem hard-headed and overly independent at first, Scorpios will always long for connection in a relationship. However, for Aquarians, their longingness for independence overrides their feelings of love. They are also logic-driven, oftentimes prioritizing friendships over partners.

So… what now?

Are Scorpio-Aquarius relationships worth it, or are they just simply a ticking time-bomb?

It takes a second to make first impressions that last a lifetime.

Let’s say you met this person online and decided to eat out today. Going for a cutesy outfit? No, maybe something more mature. How about when you meet them? Do you smile? Yes, and probably say hi in a cheerful manner too!

There are a lot of reasons why first impressions matter. This is most important especially in Scorpio-Aquarius relationships since these two might not get along with each other from the get-go.

The usual first impressions for Scorpios is that they’re grumpy, which can be attributed to their nature of having their guard up whenever meeting new people. Aquarians, on the other hand, come out as quirky and stubborn. Though both signs show some similarities in one way or another, they have to take note of their attitudes and body language whenever meeting out.

Hey, maybe the occasional coffee isn’t enough anymore.

Seems you’ve gotten closer to them, no? Perhaps, you guys have been hanging out at each others’ houses or maybe shared a few secrets here and there. Though the skies aren’t in favor of Scorpio-Aquarius relationships when it comes to romance, there is long-lasting companionship to be found regardless.

Both Scorpios and Aquarians are filled with determination to succeed. However, that’s just about it. Both these signs will clash due to their opposite characteristics and personalities, though this could be a good thing in most cases, as both signs can be each other's support since they can fill in empty gaps in the relationship.

One key trait that Scorpios have to watch out for is their overprotective and jealous nature, since this goes against the free-flowing spirit of Aquarians, who love to mingle with other people.

Well, they say opposites attract don’t they?

Certainly, opposites attract because they can make each other whole. Simply, where one falls short, the other can make up for it. This way, the couple can enjoy a long-lasting and loving relationship.

Scorpios are known for their emotions. They are individuals who long for connection. On the other hand, Aquarians are more logic-driven and distant. They are people who are independent and love to be free-flowing like the wind. These are the reasons why this kind of combination can be problematic, especially when the latter can’t effectively support or express emotions to the former. Everything will go downhill!

Luckily, with just a bit of understanding and communication, both signs can overcome their own obstacles. Since both signs have the same intelligence level, they can surely find a lot of topics to talk about.

 Try looking for a common ground and work your way up!

Nothing beats the feeling of presence and personal touch.

Maybe one of you wanted to take the relationship to the next step. Perhaps, you wanted to try living together because you would like to be in their presence for longer — cuddle more, kiss more, and spend more time together.

As live-in partners, communication will be of far greater importance in order to make Scorpio-Aquarius relationships work. Both signs are equally stubborn when it comes to their perspectives, beliefs, and attitudes, so it is no surprise that they will clash. No one will win, and no one can win.

To alleviate this problem, the couple must learn how to compromise. Scorpios need to learn that Aquarians will give and will be logical all the time, while Aquarians need to understand that Scorpios are much more emotional that they are used to.

Of course, we shouldn’t forget pain and pleasure.

Well, if Scorpio-Aquarius romance is like a rock, their sexual compatibility is like water. Both signs will enjoy each other’s companionship in bed, since Aquarians love the feeling associated with new experiences, they absolutely adore the idea of experimentation. The same goes to Scorpios, who are naturally curious beings.

These two signs being together can make the bedroom explode due to their opposite energies. Heck, they might even stay up all day and night doing it!

Kneel on one knee and ask ‘will you marry me?’

Getting married is a big deal for most people. Should the Scorpio-Aquarius couple tie the knot on a very special day, it will ensure a long-lasting and consistent companionship as long as they support each other. A strong connection is the key to success for this kind of relationship.

Marriage life is not always about love, there will always be obstacles involved. One of which are the couple’s opposite energies. Scorpios love all the attention while Aquarians get satisfaction from their environment.

At the end of the day, it really comes down to effective communication.

So, are Scorpios and Aquarians a good match? Well, as friends — sure, but as lovers? Not so much if you aren’t into rocky relationships. Though, I wish you the best of luck if you are willing to continue a romantic Scorpio-Aquarius relationship. It certainly won’t be easy, but it might as well prove to be worthwhile.