A Rocky Start to a Good Ending: Would a Leo and a Scorpio Make a Good Match?
They say opposites attract, but how about being similar?
If anyone could describe Scorpios in one word, they would most likely pick the word sigma male. Why? Well, Scorpios are known for being lone wolves that are brimming with passion. They are confident individuals who seek nothing less than perfection.
On the other hand, if someone would describe Leos, the first thing that might come into their minds would be leader. They say Leos are natural born leaders who love sparks of creativity and fun. In many ways, Leos are somewhat the same as Scorpios!
However, what if you were to date a Leo as a Scorpio? Would you guys be better off as friends, or are you going to be the power-couple everyones’ going to envy?
Everything starts with a simple hi — a simple hello, or perhaps, a goodbye.
Whether you met this person through social media or in your community, no one can deny that first impressions matter the most when it comes to forming relationships. After all, Scorpios’ gut feelings are strong and their intuitions are correct majority of the time, so it shouldn’t be a surprise if Scorpios judge you silently from the get-go. But, how about when they meet a Leo?
Most of the time, Leos can be perceived as a warm-hearted person at the start while Scorpios can often either be seen as cute or grumpy individuals. The key here is communication. Since both signs are equally confident on their own, both of them can easily start a conversation that may lead to fruitful prospects.
Can everyone be a friend? Probably not.
But, on the rare occasion that your first meeting-date-thingy went well, you may find yourself texting this Leo-person without even noticing it! You might even hang out again a couple of times and certainly hit it off.
As friends, Leos are great supporters of Scorpios. Since the latter can get too emotional at times, the former can be the wall to lean on whenever the latter feels gloomier than usual. As Leos often find their happiness and contentment within their aspirations and goals, they can easily bring the joy and adventurous spirits to the intense Scorpios.
Scorpios, on the other hand, may find it within themselves being overprotective of their Leo friends. This may seem restraining; however, Leos love the attention they get from Scorpios, so in the end, it works out perfectly!
Maybe the spark never stayed within the boundary and you both wanted more…
Great! Now, you guys are a pair of love birds — silently kissing under the faint glow of the moonlight. Everything has been pretty much upgraded: both of you kiss often, you guys hold hands every single time, and cuddle in the living room. It’s a fantastic upgrade if you ask me.
Now, you wonder, how are Scorpio-Leo relationships as lovers? Is it a disaster?
Well… all I can say is it’s a long train ride. Scorpios love being in control to the point that they may subconsciously obsess over everything that Leos do. In almost all relationships, this is not a good habit; however, if Scorpios can control their desire to control their partner, everything will be smooth sailing. These two should build a lot of trust within themselves and to each other in order to overcome barriers such as the secretive nature of Scorpios.
Say goodbye to the old, and say hi to the new!
Most adults in a person’s life will probably say the same things: you will find out more about your partner, the good, the bad, and the worst, the moment you live with them. This is certainly true to some extent; however, what about for Leos and Scorpios?
Well, just like their relationship, this area might get a little bit rocky. The two signs being similar to each other actually backfires the moment they make decisions: both love being in command, both want to lead, and both love their ideologies too much. The house is going to turn upside-down during the first few weeks of them living together.
There is a way to counter these problems, and that is to calm down and realize that none of you were right to benign with. Instead of pushing your beliefs to the other person and raising up your pride, take time to calm down, think, and talk.
Well, who doesn’t like someone who gives the same energy as you?
Leos and Scorpios are very very compatible in bed. Leos can just match Scorpios’ intense and energetic tendencies. Plus, stamina will not be a problem for these two as they can easily go all day and night, and still want more.
Though Scorpios’ tendencies to control and be prepared is against the go-with-the-flow nature of Leos, they can still find the sweet spot and enjoy their nightly routines.
The wedding bell rings as the newly-wed couple sings their love for one another.
Marriage for most is a big event. It is where two people come together as one. And after that, they can either dedicate their lives in their careers or start a family of their own.
As partners for life, both Scorpios and Leos support each other through each of their passions and aspirations. They can be each other’s pillar in times of need. Since both of them have matured by this point, pride is no longer a constant issue as the two will be able to tell when to put down their self-centeredness.
Their stubbornness to hold themselves to their own beliefs is lessened by a lot, as both of them know the value of each others’ ideas.
Overall, Scorpios and Leos make good partners in life. Even if you don’t want to be partners, these two can make good friends despite the rocky start. All it takes is a little bit of self-reflection and communication to ensure a long-lasting relationship.